What is happiness?

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Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy; this is how Wikipedia defines happiness. However, what comprises happiness might vary with each individual. But how can a feeling for which whole human kind is hankering for vary with time, place, person or circumstances? Is happiness abstract? Is abstract achievable?

If happiness is end result of positive thoughts that sparkles from feeling of contentment, then what is stopping us from being satisfied? If we all understand the true meaning of “grass is greener on other side”, then why are we unable to come out of this race of chasing greener grass every day? If we all know there is nothing like “perfect” in this world; none of our relations, work, holiday, possessions, and me "myself" can be “perfect”; then why are we not coming out of this vicious trap of expecting “perfection”? If we all agree with the fact that money cannot buy happiness but yes it can buy comfort; then why are we not setting limits for our comfort and be happy?

Research also suggests that happiness is a combination of how satisfied we are with your life and how good we feel on a day-to-day basis rather than momentary time of elation as a result of alcohol, drugs, possessions or relationships. Psychologists have even prepared S.T.A.G.E. framework that helps you build five key happiness skills: Savor, Thank, Aspire, Give, Empathize. (http://www.happify.com/public/articles/the-5-skills-that-will-increase-your-happiness/). These skills might help in achieving happiness, but is this the real mantra to be happy?

Let us come back to what is happiness? We all agree that happiness is being satisfied with what we have. But this does not mean that we sit back satisfied with illness, poverty or problems; happiness lies in fighting the tough times with best of efforts without lamentations or expectation of results. Interestingly, some might face tough times in trivial things like choosing the right dress for a party while others might face the same degree of anxiety in an interview for a job he/she always wanted. 

So, the key to happiness is satisfaction and satisfaction comes from accepting our present situation without lamentation. We all have experienced that lamentations cannot improve our present situations, rather complicate them further by draining out our positive energy. Like every dark cloud has a silver lining; happiness lies in finding the ray of hope in our tough times. Happiness is understanding that "failures are stepping stone to success"; and gathering courage to climb that stone of hurdle to reach success.

Lamentation foster agitation and one cannot put in sincere efforts with agitated mind. Once our mind is out of turmoil that tough times brings, happiness lies in doing our duties with sincere efforts without expectation for results. Expectation of results, is like giving the key of our happiness in to the hands of our boss, relations or consumers. The good result of our effort should be considered as blessing from God while the bad results to be result of your past deeds. Taking credit of work inflates the false ego within us; this state of temporary happiness associated with false ego is sure to dwindle.

Happiness is thus not abstract, but right there infront of you waiting for you to knock its door. All it takes is a little change of seeing the good around you and enjoying the journey to achieve your goals in life; putting in your sincere efforts and leaving the fruits of your action to the Almighty.

Acknowledgement: I express my heartfelt gratitude to the group of enlightened souls called Golok Express,  for bestowing me with the knowledge that I could write this article. Many thanks to the LORD for choosing me as an instrument to spread this knowledge.

Disclaimer- This blog does not promote any religion, faith or sectarian thought. This blog is platform for sharing my journey to spiritualism. I apologize if any of the thought expressed in this blog is against any religious faith or belief.

What is Spiritualism?

Is it going to temple, church or mosque daily? Is it compassion for the poor? Is it being righteous in your deeds? Or is it reading religious scriptures? The answer is yes yet NO! Yes being righteous, worship, compassion, religious reading is part of spiritualism; but not spiritualism.

Then what is spiritualism? Spiritualism is way of life that takes you to spiritual abode. Hey are you kidding me…You are making plans for my death? Nay! Spiritual abode is right here only if you could perceive it. The end result of journey to spiritualism is state of happiness, peace, fearlessness and eternal bliss. So in simple words, spiritualism is way of life that would help you achieve permanent happiness.

Spiritualism is living in the present moment; not lamenting the past moments or planning for the distant future, yes planning is important but only for things you can control. And only thing you can control is your sincere efforts according to the situation you are put in daily.

Spiritualism is giving the best to each and every endeavor in life; whether you are doing an old boring job or an exciting adventure sports. Spiritualism is giving your best and at the same time understanding you cannot control the results; after all you cannot control the mood swing of your wife, or anger of your boss, choices of your consumer, for that matter you cannot control anybody around you.


Spiritualism means being satisfied; this does not mean you should not strive for comfort in life. The problem is that definition of comfort varies; taken that if each one of us could define what is our expectation from life with regards to wealth, possessions, career and most important relationships, and then striving in balanced way to reach that goal is spiritualism. Enjoying untimely rain on most awaited luxurious holiday is spiritualism; after all you cannot control rain? Forgiving your loved ones for not living up to your expectation is spiritualism; after all no relationship is perfect?

Spiritualism is being righteous; how you can be righteous when what you think is right is actually wrong for someone else? Should you approach a neutral person, government, religious scriptures, or you yourself? Of course you yourself…yes if you are true to yourself you know what is right; but remember if one is not true to oneself he can justify even killing a friend for good. The journey to reach righteousness is the journey of spiritualism.

Well, answering “what is spiritualism?” is beyond the capacity of any human brain…all I did was to pen down my understanding of spiritualism according to the ability bestowed by the all great Almighty. Let us embark on this journey to spiritualism together by sharing our understanding of SPIRITUALISM. So, please comment about your understanding of spiritualism.

Acknowledgement: I express my heartfelt gratitude to the group of enlightened souls called Golok Express,  for bestowing me with knowledge that I could write this article. Many thanks to the LORD for making me an instrument to write this blog.


Disclaimer- This blog does not promote any religion, faith or sectarian thought. This blog is platform for sharing my journey to spiritualism. I apologize if any of the thought expressed in this blog is against any religious faith or belief.