My husband does not care, but do you?

Once upon a time there was a man who thought that life is but hopeless; all the relations are but mean and no one understand his feelings. He really wished that his family could think the way he thought -his wife could understand how tired he was until he reached back home, his children should just stay clear of him and he should get the best possible dinner right infront of his favorite TV show with literally zero disturbance.

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Once upon a time, there was a woman who thought that life was but hopeless; all the family members had demands but none of them ever cared for her. She really wished her family could think the way she thought- her husband should listen to the story of day when he returns home and empathize with her plight, she wished she could stay atleast an hour clear from the kids or house work, she wished some day family could have dinner together without the disturbance of TV.

But the sad part of the story is that this man and woman lived under same roof shared the most intimate relation called marriage, but unfortunately did not share their expectations from each other in the right way.

One day the wife happens to be part of a spiritual talk at friends home and gets stuck with the phrase “Fake it till you make it!”

She spent hours contemplating “what to fake?” and “what to make? “Her imagination had no bounds, her heart filled with joy when she thought of “making” a family that she always wished for! But next moment sadness overcame her when she realized “My husband really tolls hard full day, for what and for whom? What he gets when he comes back; constant complain and nagging? Why will he listen to my story? Better to watch TV right?”

But her ego was not ready to take that she was at fault too. She thought let me fake it that I am at fault, and do you know what she did next day?

She served the best possible dinner to her husband right infront of TV but with love and care. Husband as if missing the complains of the day asks her “how was your day?” Wife “It was very good, I did bla bla bla… . I know you must be tired after all that work, you definitely need rest“ Husband even more surprised switches off the TV and a healthy conversation starts.

Many a times we can realize that we are wrong, BUT the EGO does not let us apologize and make a new start. There come the power of “fake it till you make it”

Acknowledgement: I express my heartfelt gratitude to the group of enlightened souls called Golok Express and group of Mahatmas called Jivanmuktas,  for bestowing me with the knowledge that I could write this article. Many thanks to the LORD for choosing me as an instrument to spread this knowledge.

Disclaimer- This blog does not promote any religion, faith or sectarian thought. This blog is platform for sharing my journey to spiritualism. I apologize if any of the thought expressed in this blog is against any religious faith or belief.